{"id":319,"date":"2010-01-06T04:21:42","date_gmt":"2010-01-05T20:21:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/?p=319"},"modified":"2010-01-06T04:21:42","modified_gmt":"2010-01-05T20:21:42","slug":"advice-to-children-nigella-lawson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/2010\/01\/advice-to-children-nigella-lawson.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;It is better to be charmed than to charm.&#8221; &#8211; Nigella Lawson"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What makes people feel good about themselves is feeling as if they have been charming, interesting; in short, that you have been listened to.<\/p>\n<p>The notion be riveting, or aim to be quite the most fascinating person in the room, was a vulgarity, and just sheer, misplaced vanity. Trying to be charming is self-indulgent; allowing oneself to be charmed is simply good manners.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What makes people feel good about themselves is feeling as if they have been charming, interesting; in short, that you have been listened to. The notion be riveting, or aim to be quite the most fascinating person in the room, was a vulgarity, and just sheer, misplaced vanity. Trying to be charming is self-indulgent; allowing [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false},"categories":[],"tags":[144,152,16],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/319"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=319"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/319\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=319"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=319"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/ohjames.net\/ohjames\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=319"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}