“It is better to be charmed than to charm.” – Nigella Lawson

What makes people feel good about themselves is feeling as if they have been charming, interesting; in short, that you have been listened to.

The notion be riveting, or aim to be quite the most fascinating person in the room, was a vulgarity, and just sheer, misplaced vanity. Trying to be charming is self-indulgent; allowing oneself to be charmed is simply good manners.

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